MERIDEN - Anthony J. Gaetano, 55, of 53 Huber Ave., died Friday, May 28, 2004 at MidState Medical Center. Born in Meriden on March 11, 1949, he was the son of the late Mr. and Mrs. Frank Gaetano. He served in Vietnam as a US Army Ranger and was the owner and operator of Gaetano Car Care in Southington. He is survived by Michelle Thibedeau of Meriden. A memorial service will be held at 11 a.m., Friday, June 11, 2004 at the Beecher & Bennett Flatow Funeral Home, 48 Cook Ave., Meriden. The Rev. Shawn Daly will officiate. There are no calling hours. If desired, contributions in Mr. Gaetano's memory may be made to Special Forces Association, Tribute Fund, P.O. Box 41436, Fayetteville, N.C. 28309-1436