Patricia May (Fahl) Whited, age 90, of Meriden, formerly of Berlin, passed away on January 16, 2018. Patricia was the widow of Milton H. Whited. Born in Fresno, California on March 14, 1927 she was a daughter of the late Rudolph & Myrtle (Sawyer) Fahl. Patricia is survived by her daughters, Cynthia Thompson & her husband David of Albemarle, NC and Lori & her husband Rich of Meriden; her sons Perry D. Whited & his wife Terri of Wallingford and Randall H. Whited & his wife Denise of North Branford; grandchildren Ryan T. Whited of Meriden, Connor P. Whited of Wallingford, Tiffany Rose & Nicholas R. Whited both of North Branford and her sisters Sylvia Peterson of Nolanville, TX and Lucille Haagenrud of Bixby, OK. Patricia was an active parishioner of her church, the First Church of Christ in Wethersfield. She was a retired Executive Secretary for the Department of Labor, State of CT and a Senior Buddy Reader for the Meriden School System. Friends may visit with her family on Monday from 5:00 to 8:00 PM at Beecher & Bennett - Flatow Funeral Home, 48 Cook Ave, Meriden. During this time her Prayer Service will be held at 7:00 PM. Burial will take place on Tuesday January 23rd at 11:00 AM at the Duck River Cemetery, McCurdy Rd, Old Lyme, followed by a gathering of family and friends starting at 4:00 PM at Brentwood Village Clubhouse, 256 Brentwood Dr. Wallingford. Contributions in her memory may be made to Vitas Hospice, 199 Park Rd, Ext, Middlebury, CT 06762 or to Senior Buddy Readers, c/o Meriden Senior Center, 22 West Main St. Meriden, CT 06450.